I met my dad at 18, 10 years past and,I know now that the spirit of God told me get to know your dad . At the age of 28 I went over to my dad’s home and our relationship birth from that day to his death. 22 years later.. my dad and I had a great relationship, my dad and i, we talked about everything pertaining to his life, my life and our life, and it just balanced out in my adulthood for the man that I am today.